Remember and pray for your parents this Ramdan

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Sikm4n | Islamic Channel

July 28, 2012

- [ ♥ Your Mother ♥ ] - 

" Your mother bore you for 9 months, 

She watched her feet well, She struggled to climb stairs, 

She got breathless real quick, 

She bore excruciating pain, 

She suffered many sleepless nights, 

She became your nurse, your chef, your teacher, your cleaner, your friend. 

She struggled for you. But did she see it as a struggle? 

No, she saw it as a Blessing From Allah SWT! "

Love your Mother, And Your Father coz whatever you do for them in this Life, it will NEVER compensate for what they have done for you when you were still in the womb, and after when you were born!

" Rabir Humhuma Kama Rabayani Sageerah "

Conduct regarding our parents in Islam

Abu Hurairah related that Prophet Muhammadﷺ (peace be upon him) said:
         "May his nose be rubbed in dust - three times, who found his parents, one or both 
         approaching old age and did not enter paradise through serving them." (Muslim)


Anas ibn Malik related that Prophet Muhammadﷺ (peace be upon him) was once asked about the major sins, he answered:
         "They are to associate something or someone with Allah, to disobey the parents or to wrong 
         or injure them, to kill unlawfully and to give false evidence." (Bukhari)


Abu Usaid Sa'idi said: 'We were once sitting with Rasulullah ﷺ (peace be upon him) when a man from the tribe of Salman came and said to him: "O Messenger of Allah! do my parents have rights over me even after they have died?" And Rasulullah ﷺ (peace be upon him) replied:
         "Yes, you must pray to Allah to bless them with His Forgiveness and Mercy, fulfill the 
         promises they made to anyone, and to respect their relations and their friends." 
         (Abu Da'wud, Ibn Majah)


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In chapter The Women An-Nisa [4.1], Allah states, "And revere (and respect) the wombs (that bore you)" In Islam, pregnancy does not degrade a woman. On the contrary, it elevates the status of a woman.

In chapter The Wise (0r the person Luqman) - Luqman [31:14] - it is stated that "And We have commanded man (to be good) to his parents: In weakness and hardship his mother bore him, and in 2 years (after) was his weaning."

The Quran says in chapter The Winding Sand Tracts - Al-Ahqaf [46:15], "And We have commanded that it is essential for man to be kind to his parents: In pain did his mother bear him, and in pain did she give him birth."

According to a Hadith mentioned in Sahih Bukhari, vol. no. 8, in the Book of Adab, chp 2, hadith no. 2: "A person came to Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) and asked him, 'Who is the person who deserves the maximum love & companionship in this world?' The Prophet replied, 'Your mother.' The man asked, 'Who next?' The Prophet said, 'Your mother.' The man asked, 'After that who?' The Prophet repeated for the the 3rd time, 'Your mother.' The man asked, 'After that who?' Then the prophet said, 'Your father.'"

So woe to those who disrespect the womb that bore them. For those who torment their parents, disavow and betray the woman who bore them and shelters them - they don`t realize the depth of conceit and transgression they dig for themselves!

Woe to them who had parents - whom have passed on from this world, and never got a chance to be loved or honored, for their descendants are the ultimate losers. Woe to those who are in the care of wet nurses, step mothers, guardians and family members and are betrayed willingly - for there is no bigger traitor than the traitor who leaves the battlefield!