For the one love who will never be, I now set you free

Why should I be with you if there's pain and sorrow? Why should I dream with you if there's no tomorrow? Now my soul is badly wounded because of being reckless. Is it not enough that I've suffered? The tears I've shed is endless. I know there is reason to breathe. In this life there is hope underneath. For destiny will not lead us to each other, Nor fate will not allow to let love linger, if we are not meant to be together. For you and I will live forever and the moments we'll share will be remembered...
- Sheryl Caparas

Love, it can really kill

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The futility in seeking the love & affection from your loved ones

The idea of attaining one`s love, recognition or even the slightest amount of affection is very un-forthcoming from the very people you seek it from. In the end it seems futile. No matter what you say or do, it won`t matter or change one iota in your favor. Even if you have to move mountains and earth, from capturing lightening from Mount Olympus or to diving to the deepest seas to get the fabled pearl, it won`t matter one bit to the very people you seek approval from.

After its all said and done, even the slightest amount of love or even a smile would fill the heart with such joy that would transcend boundaries. People like us a rare breed, where we think simply and see the world for what it is and an optimist who always wants and the wishes the best for all. In return all we ask for is respect and recognition of who we are and what we do, it is all a selfless and thankless act for the betterment of people end of the day. A thankless job at heart and nevertheless people never know the whole truth and lengths we go in making things happen for them, keeping them safe and wishing them well - they`ll never know how much they are truly loved. 

But now, I realize it is futile for attaining people`s will and affection. For all you do, it will never soften their stone-hardened heart. We are only mere tools for them to use and discarded after the use has been sufficed. Only their pre-occupations with the worldly distractions keep them shielded from reality and oblivious to the outside world and to peoples feelings. But rest assured we will continue to do the things we do in secret and wish for the well-being of everyone as we already do.  

For in the end, its fruitless to seeks ones approval, to seek ones recognition and respect, to seek ones love and heart. Living your life by other peoples standards, practices and wishes will accomplish nothing and erase your own self-identity. Rather aspiring to be like someone or copying their customs, be unique and a trailblazer by making your own choices and destiny.

Morality and respect are waning in our society now and will only deteriorate until the end time nears. The constant bickering, trickery, back-biting, delving into things of no help or importance as well as the loss of morality especially in our loved ones is ever increasing and not becoming of our character in society.

Only time will tell the complete story how the end will play out...


-RA