This worldly life is like an unchaste woman...

Islamic Network
by Ibn Qayyim al-Jawziyyah

This worldly life is like an unchaste woman, who is not satisfied with one husband. So! be satisfied with whatever Allah grants you from this worldy life. Walking thereon is like walking in a land that is filled with beasts, and water that teams with crocodiles. That which causes delight, turns to be the source of grief. Pain is found in the midst of pleasures, and delights are derived from its sorrows. As a bird sees the wheat, so does one’s insight perceive polytheism, while vain desires render its holder blind. Lusts were granted in abundance to humans, but those who believed in the unseen turned away from them! while those who follow their lusts were caused to regret. The first category, are those, in which Allah says,which means,

       They are on (true) guidance from their Lord, and they are the successful. (AI-
       Baqarah, 2:5)

However, the other category, are those to whom Allah says which means,

       (0 you disbelievers)! Eat and enjoy yourselves (in this worldly life) for a little while. 
       Verily, you are the Mujrimun (polytheists, disbelievers, sinners, criminals, etc.) (AI-
       Mursalat,77:46)

When the successful ones are aware of the reality of this worldly life being sure of the inferiority of its degree, they overcame their vain desires for the sake of the Hereafter. They have been awakened from their heedlessness to remember what their enemies took from them during their period of idleness. Whenever they perceive the distant journey they must undertake, they remember their aim, so it appears easy for them. Whenever life becomes bitter, they remember this verse, in which Allah says, which means,

       “This is your Day which you were promised”. (AI Anbiya’, 21:103)