Showing posts with label family. Show all posts
Showing posts with label family. Show all posts

Tuesday, May 28, 2013

The ever deepening hidden facets to my prodigious 'la familia'

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Its just a surprising astonishment that where I consider family being the single most thing that`s supposed to bring warmth to the heart and soul is however in reality one of the most destructive elements a person can be exposed to, that causes you to rot from within. The persistent denial, anger, persecution, back-biting and constant disrespect takes its toll on a person when the whole family wages war on them together. There is no escape, no respite despite keeping up appearances when in reality it is utter futile.

The greatest thing now is the amount of disrespect exacted by everyone upon myself. Respect all throughout history was a thing not attainable but commanded or ordained. From the greatest kings to empires, respect existed in all forms as a guide to society. From the older generations to our parents, respect runs high in esteem. American culture at the core as well values respect. But it is the new immigrant class of people coming to this country that trashes the name of respect. To them, respect is people who have the latest iphones, apple computers, mercedes & bmw cars, flashy and dodgy clothes, squabbling who has more wealth or high-paying jobs, having personalities un-becoming of a gentleman from behavior, to mannerisms and hairstyles not commonly seen or accepted by society in general. To them, the pleasures of this world are respect to them. How vain they must be and think that they don`t see the past lessons of history people have endured.

Now, throughout history we are told of 'family' by the greats like Desmond Tutu who said "You don`t choose your family. They are God`s gift to you, as you are to them" or like a Spanish proverb that states that 'an ounce of blood is worth more than a pound of friendship.' However, these statement only make sense to the few utopian families in existence but not all. I can attest to that personally. What good are they to you when they are of in ignorance bliss.

Sooner or later, the burden will eventually break my will which to this day has been shaky at best considering the life events I`m experiencing at this point. Down the road, only time will tell how the story will unfold. The greats in my family have all long passed away, not having to endure the grueling petulance of life currently in our society. Looking back from afar, it is a great shame what society has become. No one learns the lessons of history, for the mighty empires who stood high and fell. For the mighty advancements we contemplate and currently have, there is no respite from the fact we are more at war with our fellow man and sunk into the pleasures of this world as nothing is beyond it.

It surely is a shame, I as the only person share this view and truly see the light at the end of tunnel and can`t relay my message to my family members. I feel more alone and isolated now than anytime in my life. No one can understand that life right now is just mere smoke and mirrors and play has played into it. It surely is tough being unique and loyal to my core values and beliefs as I will never abandon under any threat until my last dying breath. As is in our religion, as commanded by God to the Prophets to their people - to just deliver the message to the people and ultimately it is up the people and God himself to give them the guidance unto the right path.

'Be in the world, but not of it.' For in the end, you are eternally alone before you are born and eternally alone when you die and meet your Creator...

-RA, SA, RSA

Wednesday, July 11, 2012

The true reality of your friends

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FRIENDS

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          Friends.......They love you, 
          But they're not your lover. 

          They care for you,
          But they're not from your family. 

          They're ready to share your pain, 
          But they're not your blood relation. 

          They are........FRIENDS! !!!!
          A True friend...... .
          Scolds like a DAD..
          Cares like a MOM..
          Teases like a SISTER..
          Irritates like a BROTHER..
          And finally loves you for YOU.

Monday, July 9, 2012

Those living in ignorant bliss

For those living in this deceiving life, who strive for the bounties of this world as if there in no tomorrow all the while oppressing the very kin next to you, rest assured the pain hurts now but there will be respite for me in the end. Its the end that matters in suit of life. The endless partying, idle talk between the family, plotting and oppressing...what shame have they brought to themselves yet they do not realize they are below cattle in ignorance, not remembering they will join the very departed souls who vanished in front of them (RSA)

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Sunday, July 1, 2012

The vast emptiness of being alone...

Never have I felt this alone, this vast emptiness, this distant, a cast off with mortal danger at every turn from the very people you give your heart out to. It is a shame, the very same people instigate, mitigate, slander & plot against you for your downfall when in fact you pray for all their well-being. It is the selfish nature of man to always receive and receive but never to give one iota. Truly as the great Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said, we are certainly the ghuraba (the strangers) to the disbelievers, so we must distance our selves from the rest.

As Ibrahim al-Nakha`i said, “Those who were destroyed before you were destroyed due to three traits – excess in speech, excess in food, and excess in sleep.”

Ya Wadud! ~ Oh Beloved, make the veils on my heart to vanish, hear my cry and open my heart with Your Light. Oh You Who loves those whose hearts are broken for Your sake ~ You are Allah, Our Lord. (RSA)

For the one that displeases you

Tuesday, June 19, 2012

Legacy of our ancestors...mi familia

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We live our lives through our ancestors...it is their history that makes us stronger.~RSA




I pray to Allah the Almighty, for my ancestors who have since passed away to be forgiven fortheir sins, forgive the accountability in the grave and bestow jannat (heaven) upon them all.


For all the departed souls on both sides of my family, I ask the Almighty Allah to bless us as He blessed the families of Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) and Prophet Abraham (peace be upon him).

Monday, June 18, 2012

Of what occurs in the past...

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'...mere shadows & dust to the people we love'

In this world, we are all but mere shadows and dust to the people we devote and give our lives to...yet they will never know the full truth. For that one special person who brings such both joy and melancholy to the heart, all I can do is sit from afar and watch her grow up and be thralled into the throws of a ravenous family & society - RSA

dedicated to Sanakht Korrukaten (an anagram off course for the real person)

Thursday, June 14, 2012

The hidden facets to my 'prodigious la familia'

agapegeek.com
Its just a surprising astonishment that where I consider family being the single most thing that`s supposed to bring warmth to the heart and soul is however in reality one of the most destructive elements a person can be exposed to, that causes you to rot from within. The persistent denial, anger, persecution, back-biting and constant disrespect takes its toll on a person when the whole family wages war on them together. There is no escape, no respite despite keeping up appearances when in reality it is utter futile.

The greatest thing now is the amount of disrespect exacted by everyone upon myself. Respect all throughout history was a thing not attainable but commanded or ordained. From the greatest kings to empires, respect existed in all forms as a guide to society. From the older generations to our parents, respect runs high in esteem. American culture at the core as well values respect. But it is the new immigrant class of people coming to this country that trashes the name of respect. To them, respect is people who have the latest iphones, apple computers, mercedes & bmw cars, flashy and dodgy clothes, squabbling who has more wealth or high-paying jobs, having personalities un-becoming of a gentleman from behavior, to mannerisms and hairstyles not commonly seen or accepted by society in general. To them, the pleasures of this world are respect to them. How vain they must be and think that they don`t see the past lessons of history people have endured.

Now, throughout history we are told of 'family' by the greats like Desmond Tutu who said "You don`t choose your family. They are God`s gift to you, as you are to them" or like a Spanish proverb that states that 'an ounce of blood is worth more than a pound of friendship.' However, these statement only make sense to the few utopian families in existence but not all. I can attest to that personally. What good are they to you when they are of in ignorance bliss.

Sooner or later, the burden will eventually break my will which to this day has been shaky at best considering the life events I`m experiencing at this point. Down the road, only time will tell how the story will unfold. The greats in my family have all long passed away, not having to endure the grueling petulance of life currently in our society. Looking back from afar, it is a great shame what society has become. No one learns the lessons of history, for the mighty empires who stood high and fell. For the mighty advancements we contemplate and currently have, there is no respite from the fact we are more at war with our fellow man and sunk into the pleasures of this world as nothing is beyond it. 

It surely is a shame, I as the only person share this view and truly see the light at the end of tunnel and can`t relay my message to my family members. I feel more alone and isolated now than anytime in my life. No one can understand that life right now is just mere smoke and mirrors and play has played into it. It surely is tough being unique and loyal to my core values and beliefs as I will never abandon under any threat until my last dying breath. As is in our religion, as commanded by God to the Prophets to their people - to just deliver the message to the people and ultimately it is up the people and God himself to give them the guidance unto the right path.

'Be in the world, but not of it.' For in the end, you are eternally alone before you are born and eternally alone when you die and meet your Creator...


-RA, SA, RSA

Vanishing through the sands of time...

There will be a time when my name will completely cease to exist in the mouths of my loved ones, ensuring my legacy to eventually vanish through the sands of time ~RSA

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Letting your heart feel for others...(George Washington)

“Let your heart feel for the afflictions and distress of everyone, and let your hand give in proportion to your purse.”

-George Washington

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Our ancestors live on through our lives

Hand in Hand” (painting) by Miki (2007)
We all grow up with the weight of history on us. Our ancestors dwell in the attics of our brains as they do in the spiraling chains of knowledge hidden in every cell of our bodies. ~Shirley Abbott

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Tuesday, June 12, 2012

The futility in seeking the love & affection from your loved ones

The idea of attaining one`s love, recognition or even the slightest amount of affection is very un-forthcoming from the very people you seek it from. In the end it seems futile. No matter what you say or do, it won`t matter or change one iota in your favor. Even if you have to move mountains and earth, from capturing lightening from Mount Olympus or to diving to the deepest seas to get the fabled pearl, it won`t matter one bit to the very people you seek approval from.

After its all said and done, even the slightest amount of love or even a smile would fill the heart with such joy that would transcend boundaries. People like us a rare breed, where we think simply and see the world for what it is and an optimist who always wants and the wishes the best for all. In return all we ask for is respect and recognition of who we are and what we do, it is all a selfless and thankless act for the betterment of people end of the day. A thankless job at heart and nevertheless people never know the whole truth and lengths we go in making things happen for them, keeping them safe and wishing them well - they`ll never know how much they are truly loved. 


But now, I realize it is futile for attaining people`s will and affection. For all you do, it will never soften their stone-hardened heart. We are only mere tools for them to use and discarded after the use has been sufficed. Only their pre-occupations with the worldly distractions keep them shielded from reality and oblivious to the outside world and to peoples feelings. But rest assured we will continue to do the things we do in secret and wish for the well-being of everyone as we already do.  

For in the end, its fruitless to seeks ones approval, to seek ones recognition and respect, to seek ones love and heart. Living your life by other peoples standards, practices and wishes will accomplish nothing and erase your own self-identity. Rather aspiring to be like someone or copying their customs, be unique and a trailblazer by making your own choices and destiny.

Morality and respect are waning in our society now and will only deteriorate until the end time nears. The constant bickering, trickery, back-biting, delving into things of no help or importance as well as the loss of morality especially in our loved ones is ever increasing and not becoming of our character in society.

Only time will tell the complete story how the end will play out...



-RA

Thursday, December 8, 2011

Family – The Most Powerful Educational Institution

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Danish Riyaz, Sept., 20, 2011
The family unit is an important component of Islaam, and all elements of a family are given due significance – from parents to children to spouses to kith and kin. Family is the building block and the back bone for an Islaamic society. Prophet Muhammad (sallallaahu ‘alayhi wa sallam) told us, the best among you is the one who is best with his/her family. Let’s join hand in hand to make our families likeness of the families of the Salaf.


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