Tuesday, December 20, 2011

Conduct regarding Backbiting and Slander

It is reported by 'Abdullah Ibn Mas`ud that Rasulullah  (peace be upon him) said:
         "To backbite a Muslim is an act of transgression (fisq) and to fight him is unbelief (kufr)."
         (Bukhari, Muslim)


Abu Sa`id al-Khudri related that Rasulullah  (peace be upon him) said:
         "Slander is worse than adultery."
He was asked how slander could be worse than adultery, and he answered:
         "If a person commits adultery, he can be forgiven by Allah if he repents. But a slanderer     
         will not be forgiven until he is forgiven by the person he had been speaking about."  
         (Baihaqi)


Abu Hurairah reported that once Rasulullah  (peace be upon him) asked:
         "Do you know what is backbiting?"
He was answered: Allah and His Messenger know best; Rasulullah  (peace be upon him) then said:
         "Anything that you say about someone in his absence that may displease him."
Someone asked: 'Even if he is as I describe him?' and Rasulullah  (peace be upon him) added:
         "If he is as you describe him then you are guilty of backbiting, otherwise you are guilty of 
         slander (which is worse than backbiting)." (Muslim)


As Allah revealed in the Noble Qur`an:
يأَيُّهَا الَّذِينَ ءَامَنُواْ اجْتَنِبُواْ كَثِيراً مِّنَ الظَّنِّ إِنَّ بَعْضَ الظَّنِّ إِثْمٌ وَلاَ تَجَسَّسُواْ وَلاَ يَغْتَب بَّعْضُكُم بَعْضاً أَيُحِبُّ أَحَدُكُمْ أَن يَأْكُلَ لَحْمَ أَخِيهِ مَيْتاً فَكَرِهْتُمُوهُ وَاتَّقُواْ اللَّهَ إِنَّ اللَّهَ تَوَّابٌ رَّحِيمٌ
"O you who believe! Avoid much of suspicions, indeed some suspicions are sins. Do not spy, nor backbite some of you to others. Would one of you like to eat the flesh of its dead brother? You would hate it. Fear Allah. Surely, Allah is the one who Accepts repentance, Merciful." [Noble Qur`an, Surah Al-Hujurat 49:12]


Related posts on Gossiping; Backbiting
[Rubaiat`s Blog]: What Islam Says About Gossiping (Ghibah)
[Rubaiat`s Blog]: Brief story and lesson of the young woman & scholar on the dangers of gossiping (ghibah)

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